Two Weeks Notice
Downelink Closing
im not even sure why I’m sending this to all of my friends in Downelink. Not sure of the reason.
I opened a Downelink account two months ago, hoping to meet people na makakasundo ko, magusgustuhan ko, or magugustuhan ako.
After 150+ friends, I still havent met somebody n okay.
Within that time, I met one na nagustuhan ako s first meeting pero not sure if kayang mkipagsabayan sa akin. Im working and he’s studying. Ako lagi nanlilibre whenever we meet and out of town p xa.
I met two na flirt nung first meeting and naging friendly nung second meeting and the other meetings that followed. Xa n cguro yung pinakamatino sa lahat nang nameet kaso nung i told him that i like him, he backed out.
I met three. Mabait sana kaso medyo sabik and was not my type talaga.
I met four na akala ko mabait sa text kaso sex lang pala habol.
I met five na gusto ko talaga, sobra. Cute and caring. He somehow found me cool din naman on the first date. But Im not really sure what happened next since up to now, di xa nagrereply. Sayang. hay..
SO here I am, going to close my downelink after two weeks; iiopen ko xa daily for the next two weeks and will finally shut it off after 14 days.
in case:
0915-2589506
donnieraydeguzmanbaje@yahoo.com
I dunno. Good luck sa ating lahat, I guess.
Short Messages
Don’t lose hope dude! Until this account is free, take advantage of it for the mean time. Try to know as many friends and peeps as you want. Who knows? and what’s life without taking risks. 
John- Downelink
http://www.downelink.com/messages/readmessage.aspx?id=21905961
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tama ba?….hehe…;)
neruda873- Downelink
http://www.downelink.com/messages/readmessage.aspx?id=22553460
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aww..
well, u shouldnt give u looking for the right person for u, u know.
it really hurts to meet someone and know that he looks for something else but u should never try looking. kasi baka kung kelan ka nag give up, dun mo na sana cia nakilala dba? :B
ive been in ur position. ngaun, i found someone. dont lose hope. :B
miko- Downelink
http://www.downelink.com/messages/readmessage.aspx?id=22456518
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go pa! you have still 166-5=161 persons to meet pa.
housemate ii
http://www.downelink.com/messages/readmessage.aspx?id=22440696
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sad stories huh???… well, it happens to all of us….
adam- Downelink
http://www.downelink.com/messages/readmessage.aspx?id=22388257
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dont seem hopeless dude…just tell me how can i possibly help you out with this matter…
contact me, 0917 2483256…hope to hear from you asap…
ciao!
Delinquente- Downelink
http://www.downelink.com/messages/readmessage.aspx?id=22220895
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hi…msta?
Neuroman- Downelink
http://www.downelink.com/messages/readmessage.aspx?id=22216840
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Don’t lose hope dude! Until this account is free, take advantage of it for the mean time. Try to know as many friends and peeps as you want. Who knows? and what’s life without taking risks.
John- Downelink
http://www.downelink.com/messages/readmessage.aspx?id=21905961
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The Story of Jayce
Hay naku. Went through that before too. Met my first three “relationships” sa chat years ago. One week, two weeks, five days. Etc. During that time, I was so seriously in love with them and devastated when they left me or when I found out na playtime lang pala. Hindi lang iyak. Ngalngal pa! Haha. I was twenty two then. Wanted to give up din. Well, you grow wiser, stronger. Looking back, wala kwenta lang pala. Sayang lang iyak ko. The best ones pa rin are those you meet for the first time in person, either by coincidence or referral.
Pag sa net kasi, alam ng people na most of the time, lokohan. Ang mag seryoso, Talo. But when introduced orreferred by a common good friend, anyone would think twice bago manggagago.
Believe me, found this current relationship while still nursing a “painful” heartache from a guy frim the net. Two weeks lang kami ng net guy from chat nayun. But was very “hurt” then. I said ayoko na. Then one day, a frined was looking for ipapadate sa friend niya. I did not even ask for a date. Nor was I looking. Not even waiting. Accident talaga na ako una nya kinausap after makausap yung friend niya.
Take this advice seriously: Start by building your circle of gay friends. Look for really good FRIENDS sa net. NOT BOYFRIENDS. Kung sex ok lang. BUT NOT BOYFRIENDS. Once you have your circle na, thats when you get introduced to guys from their networks. Better yun. Less prone to heartache. Promise mo you will do this?
That’s where you get good friends. Start from there. Friends lang talaga. If and when magsex kayo, ok lang ifyou both like it. But be clear to him and yourself mismo na friends lang talaga hanap mo para shold you decide to have sex, hindi ka tataguan or something after because hindi naman relationship hanap mo. You won’t expect, you won’t get hurt.
Sige, from now on, text me na sa real number ko. pang-DL lang kasi ito. Dami kasi miss call etc. Kaya ayaw ko give real number ko.
Jayce- Downelink
Texted messages
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ei dude!
y dont u give urself another chance!
i’ve been to bad dates and bad relationships before.
nevertheless, i never lose hope.
s’why my friends say im an incurable romantic. hehe ^_^
y dont u go out w/ me.
who knows? we myt hit it off!
if we dont, we can still be friends!
pls dont close ur account here! ^_^
09276428587 fonzy
Fonzy- Downelink
http://www.downelink.com/messages/readmessage.aspx?id=21840091
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What Do We Expect
how sad… kaya ako., 4months na yata ako., once palang ako nkipagmeet., maraming gustong mkipag eb sa akin., pero init lang yan talaga sa simula., wat do you expect dito sa site na ito., its purely seb…. ewan ko lang., pero sa ngayon gusto ko lang makipagfriend sa kanila then siguro after a series or contstant communication with them., so siguro dats the time na makikipagkita na ako sa kanila., well keep on searching dude… dont give up…. malay mo its about time to meet me…hehehehe., so dont close your account dude…..lets give a try…….09284104403/09225193044
Christian- Downelink
http://www.downelink.com/messages/readmessage.aspx?id=21842262
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Sumuko
lam u wag kng smko,sa una ganyan lang tlga pero ndi mgtatagal makakakuha ka rin,wag kang sumoko kaya mo yan at wag mung eh close ung acoun t mo d2 sa downelink.
Jay- Downelink
http://www.downelink.com/messages/readmessage.aspx?id=21819316
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Enjoy the Thrill
it happens all the time… ganyan talaga ang mga lalake like us, more unpredictable than the weather… at least you get to meet five folks may iba diyan hanggang messages lang sa DL and never has the guts to meet up… meron din iba cool and friendly, haven’t met them yet but we YM or text basta wala lang expectations… most of them friends nalang kaya if we meet at the bar it’s cool, we chat, drink up or whatever, dance the night away, its kinda fun actually, don’t know why i am replying to your message but i just felt like relying to the message that i first read today… in DL sometimes the add you add sometimes they take you offf but that’s ok, you just add other people then and besides you don’t know them naman personally, you might not know it but you get to meet new friends just a couple out of the 150 or the 284, keep the account its cool but it’s not the only way to meet guys sa 7/11 or sa gym or sa MRT… or sa yoga class who knows… just keep the account with friends, common acquaintances, new friends and possible prospects…
just hang in there dude and enjoy the thrill of the ride =)
Bing- Downelink
http://www.downelink.com/messages/readmessage.aspx?id=21817708
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At Least You Met Them
I registered in DL with the same reason as yours. I am surfing and checking this site for less than a month. Wala pa naman ako na me-meet. I am still in search of that special someone. I am saddened by the experiences you have encountered. I wish you wouldn’t feel that all your efforts were wasted because by the end of the day you have learned from those not-so-good encounters. At least you are able to meet a spectrum of personalities. Mas marunong ka nang manimbang ng pagkatao ng bawat nakikilala mo kasi may pinagbabatayan ka na mula sa mga nakilala mo.
di naman perfect ang buhay. . . we need to have those bumps along our paths to make us more learned.
you are still on the gaining side if you come to think about it. . .
just message me if you need someone to talk to. . .
A.M.- Downelink
http://www.downelink.com/messages/readmessage.aspx?id=21802309
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Unfair for You
i do not know if i have the right to say this. but don’t lose hope. walang kasiguraduhan lahat ng nangyayari. we only lose hope because we expect.
don’t expect things turning up the way you planned, wanted…dahil hindi ganoon ang buhay. minsan kailangan lang natin sumabay sa agos nito. kung saan tayo papapuntahin nun, go rin tayo…let loose, let go.
donnie, if this is any consolation, i haven’t met someone here and i think that i got here way ahead of you. (well, nung summer lang yata ako nag-apply haha)…at tsaka buti ka nga nakakapag-date na…ako nga, wala pa. well siguro it’s my choice, or i wasn’t brave enough…but the truth is, i want the date to be special. you might not agree with me but that’s me…hehe. just sharing. ang punto ko lang siguro is, may time na inilaan sayo to find him:)
whatelse…well, ur one of the people i visit the profile often. haha. kadiri ko ‘no? siguro dahil kamukha mo yung super crush ko sa BA. tapos 6 days apart lang ang birthday niyong dalawa, at harry potter fan rin siya. but siyempre, siya ang gusto ko, at mahihirapan akong iexplain sa iyo pagnagkataon why i like you. u get me? it would be unfair to you, na tinitignan kita, but thinking of somebody else.
ur an attractive guy, very hardworking (well mahirap magcall center ha, at nakikita ko ang friends ko struggling to work and study at the same time)…if only i had the guts to meet, id do. really. but i guess ako na ang may mali nun. cute ka kc e, habang ako pag nakita mo ako, isang 21 year old that looked like a 26 year old stressed guy with meteor garden like craters in the face, so don’t lose hope my friend.
Ron- Downelink
http://www.downelink.com/messages/readmessage.aspx?id=21797762
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[Originally published in The Palace Proclamations 2: the 18th Year]
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